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Hexagram 54

The Marrying Maiden

归妹 · Guī Mèi

Trigram Composition

Upper Trigram

Thunder

Lower Trigram

Lake

The Judgment (彖)

The Marrying Maiden. Undertakings bring misfortune. Nothing that would further.

The Image (象)

Thunder over the lake. The superior person understands the transitory in the light of the eternity of the end.

Meaning

Entering a situation from a subordinate position without full agency. Affection driving action rather than wisdom. When desire leads rather than propriety, outcomes tend toward misfortune.

Advice

Be cautious about entering arrangements where you lack equal standing. Desire alone is not enough basis for commitment. Accept your current position gracefully while working toward something better.

Keywords

SubordinationDesireProprietyCautionAcceptance